Out of habit I dont sleep much. I like to work late when its more quiet and I can get to focus, read and collect my thoughts on issues . Though the day in itself had not my best, yesterday was not an exception. I retired to bed a few minutes shy 2am.
Usually my alarm is the first thing that wakes me up. I have the alarms in a sequence the first is when I get to heat up my bath water. Then the second is when I actually get out of bed.
Today was a different case altogether. In the wee hours of the morning there was a loud knock on the door which woke me up. My first assumption was that it was on my door but I later realised that it was my landlords door. (Which is a few metres from mine) After what seemed a while of continous knocking ( I was wideawake then) there was a response The voice outside was a lady and she spoke with both emotion and urgency. Apparently her husband had become very ill during the night and she had rushed to come and ask assistance for transport to ferry him to the nearest hospital. They drove away shortly afterwards.
After that I couldnt sleep. I had a few things that were in my head having gone through such a similar encounter when I was young.
It was a wide array of thoughts about my country, community and family.
If things had been well all it would have taken was a simple call for an ambulance to get her husband to the hospital
Because poor governance, lack of accountability, greed and corruption on the part of our political leadership our health system (and the whole economy as a whole)is in a deplorable state. Emergency services have become a privilege of the few that can afford medical aid. Most of the people who come from marginalised backgrounds their healthcare has been left to fate. This ought not to be.
I also drew a lesson on community. We all have a role to play in our communities to support each other and help each other when one of us is in need. The true essence of community is being our brothers keepers. I have seen societies where people live behind tall walls and high gates and have absolutely no care about their neighbours or restrict their association to neighbours who are in their own class and turn a blind eye to those that are in need in society. This also ought not to be.
More importantly today the strength of women in the family was reaffirmed. Women are usually at the recieving end during tough and trying times. They hold families together. Having been raised by a single mother myself I saw first hand the struggles of a woman. Its ironic that our societies still mistreat women. We know the challenges right from that of the girl child who is refused the opportunity to go to school, the orphaned girl child who is being sexually abused by a gurdian or the woman who is subject to heinous forms of spousal abuse. This is all too common and it ought not to be.
Making an introspection of todays events I think that we all have a collective role that we have to play from the macro (economy and politics) to the micro (family) social institutions. We need to start developing a culture of unapologetically demanding accountability from our leaders right from the grassroots through how our children are educated, at work and towards political leadership. The ethos of community has to be revitalised and community leaders should aim to ensure that everyone is engaged in community problem solving initiatives. Most importantly there is need to create and preserve strong families. WOMEN MUST BE RESPECTED this should be taught in schools, preached on pulpits and made a mantra that children are raised by.
If we are ready to make these changes perhaps then can we make our societies a bit better for ourselves and the future generations to come.